What do I believe in? I believe in Passion, being Truthful to yourself and others, if you aren't true: the truth is you're fake. With what guiding principles can I be constructively obsessed? What work gives me the most pleasure? If I lost my job, current position and status do I have friends who will give me support? What can I do that offers me sheer joy - - that emphasizes my uniqueness and from which my creativity flows? What currently governs my life? Where do I spend my time? What do I want to be remembered for? What do I have to do to make my life complete? http://marriagemattersblog.blogspot.com/2013/08/rational-versus-irrational-jealousy.html